I TOLD YOU SO !!!!

A very common statement heard by almost everyone in this world. A statement that gives a know it all attitude to the giver and irritation to the one at the receiving end. This mostly happens when we either ignore or miss out on the advices given by our closed ones. I do also come in the same category. To tell you my father kept on asking me to mend my ways and get disciplined in your life, but I like an idiot never used to listen to him and now when the circumstances are asking me to do the same he says “I hate to say it that I told you so but I told you so”. From getting serious in my studies to doing some exercise to keep my weight in check, there had been countless no. of times that my dad has proved that “ He Told Me So”. Most of these things happen because we In ourselves think most of the time that we are the smartest and know what we are doing thus ignoring the most important people who give advices to us through the experiences they had in their lives.

Not only is this in the family but also among friends some of us are so self centered that they will never pay heed to what their friends are saying. The most common thought that comes to the person at the receiving end is ”Who the hell asked him or her for their advice in the first place”. But in this commotion we forget the one important thing that they are those who love and care for us and not your enemies.

No matter you like or don’t like them giving advices to you but they will always do so because you are not a person who is stranger or not in any relation to them, but you are the one whom they love and care for a lot. And no matter what you think it’s a part of their responsibility to help you see the right way and guide you in a way that’s in the best interest of yours.

All in all if you don’t want to hear “ I told you so” please listen to what people say to you especially those who are close to you like your family and friends because not matter what you think it will always be in the best interest of yours.!!!