Amitié

Well I saw this movie 2 days back “BILLU BARBER”. Yeah the same movie which I know most of the people did not like. I know I also fell asleep for half of the movie god it was a torture sad jokes songs with no relation etc. But I don’t know the ending part of the movie when Sharukh gives his speech actually touched my heart. Yeah I know we see a lot of movies who talk about friendship and all but I felt what he said in the speech about friendship was a part of our real life. While I was listening to his speech there came memories of my old friends from school and college with whom I spend a lot of time together. Those days when we used to wait after our extra classes for our one ton(it’s an army vehicle) to come and pick us up after the class eating each others lunch sharing oranges playing truth and dare(oh my friends used to hate it for I was the cool dude who always used to take dare but they could not get any secrets out of me)and bunking classes to watch movies, jumping of the college gates to eat gh’s parathas etc. that movie actually feel how far I have come from my friends even though I have tried to be in touch with most of them but I remember some of them whom I still want to meet. But now the time has actually changed now there are some people who wont even look at you if you are not at the same status If you ask someone what’s the definition of friends for them the answers will be” for me they are people with whom entertain yourself”, “people with whom you can have lots of beer and vodka”, “people who can mark your proxies”etc. that is what people think about friendship??

Now a days if anyone says that he/she will be a true friend to someone it feels like a joke or that the person is saying for the heck of saying it. Well how much importance do we give to our friends we should ask ourselves. Now a days people have friends but they do not value their friendship. You see two friends breaking their friendship on petty things. Well I don’t know what people think about friendship. Its not a toy that you can break and and mend everytime you want. Neither it’s a tool that one can use against another. I think friendship is a bond of love and trust which forms between two persons and it makes them feel that they can depend on each other whenever the need arises. In our life we find a lot of friends who may have affected our life in some or the other way. Some friends may have helped you in your homework, some would have protected you from harm, some would care for you, some would even hurt you if the need arises, some may inspire you(like me writing this blog is also an inspiration from a very close friend of mine), some may help you to control your negativities, some may give you the shoulder to cry on, some will give you the strength to fight your problems, some may have done a lot of things for you when no one is there to help you all this is not a duty that a friend performs but the beauty of true friendship. I do not have a lot of friends but I have been lucky and thank god every day for whenever I needed a friend in my life he has send someone or the other as a friend for me. I actually don’t regret at all that I don’t have a lot of friends for I am very proud of whatever small number of friends I have got. I just want to tell them that guys you will always be a part of my heart no matter what and no one can take your place. You all are the most wonderful persons I have met in my life and I will always love you!!!!!!!!